Claiming Your New Self Is a Given

Claiming Your New Self Is a Given

Life Tapestry Creations
Channel: Brenda Hoffman

Posted on August 5, 2024

 

 

 

Dear Ones,

Many of you envision your new life and who you will become. Yet, your interests sometimes seem counterintuitive, even wrong.

Even though you are no longer a linear being with anticipated expectations, you continue to expect that your thoughts and actions will be linear, from A to B to C.

You will not understand how different you have become until you find new interests exciting and your former interests monotonous.

Perhaps you question that thought because your daily routine has not changed much. Yet, if you scratch beneath the surface of your beliefs or interests, you will discover that what was once interesting or intriguing is now boring. And what was once outside your expected skill level is now enticing.

You are no longer the Janelle or Steven of yesterday or this morning. Your new being will arrive in erratic spurts, so what seemed interesting this morning might prove tiresome this afternoon.

This phase is a growth spurt in a direction you have never before explored. So, nothing in your life can be anticipated. Perhaps that thought frightens you because you want something or someone to attach your feelings and physical being to.

Just as you are changing, so is everyone around you. Those you once depended upon may no longer care much about your needs, and vice versa. This is a new world, and you are a new being, as are millions of other Earth beings. Think of everyone you know or interact with undergoing a similar shift. And then add those who do not wish to shift, and your world becomes one of upheavals, change, unexpected shifts – and not a little frightening.

Perhaps you wonder why you might struggle as you adjust to a life of love. A life in which fear no longer holds the key to interactions, shifts, and growth. Such is so because your life changes will be so dramatic you will have difficulties believing they are valid and, therefore, trusting your inner messages. “What if I take this step, and it’s not what I expect?” What if I say this to a friend, and they’re no longer my friend?” “Why is the person I love acting so strangely?” All inner questions that will highlight your next few days.

Imagine you inherited millions of dollars, making you question your life and the lives of those you hold dear. “How much do I dare change my life to continue the same relationship I had with others when I had no money?” “How can I know if this person really cares for me?” Even though both are common 3D questions, they are irrelevant in your new world. If you no longer have similar frequencies, neither of you will continue the relationship.

Your concerns are 3D concerns indicating you have something others desire instead of the new reality that others can create what you have if they wish. Your compatibility frequencies are no longer based on “I have what someone wants.” but “I have what someone might want to explore, and if that’s true, we’ll likely be compatible.”

In 3D, you accepted this piece or that action to maintain relationships, thinking, “Nothing is perfect.” or “This is the best I can do.” Now that you have activated your entire spectrum of skills, there is no need for jealousy or to make do in any relationship.

Perhaps this concept seems unbelievable, punitive, or wrong for who you believe you are. It is time to expand your interactions, creations, and explorations. And because the Earth needs to shift quickly, you will begin doing so soon. This inner drive cannot be stopped or altered any more than was true for walking, talking, or puberty.

It is a given that your life will change. Such is possible with feelings of terror, as was true for some in puberty, or it can be a natural process you encourage. It is your choice, for this phase will likely begin in the next few days.

It is time to claim your new being. You can do so by kicking and screaming or laughing in joy. Even though you have a choice in how you claim your new being, you will do so. 

 

So be it. 

 

Brenda Hoffman

http://www.lifetapestrycreations.com/

 

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Maybe Isn’t an Option

Maybe Isn’t an Option

Life Tapestry Creations
Channel: Brenda Hoffman

Posted on February 12, 2024

 

 

 

 

Dear Ones,

Adjusting to new thoughts and actions before you transitioned was often a convoluted process of accessing all the information you could gather about the change and then creating a method of adapting, perhaps through discussions with others, writing, or meditation.

Your new adjustment process is much less complicated. You merely continue with your life without much, if any, emphasis on how you are different.

As a result, you will find new activities or interests more readily than ever before while of the earth. Interests that may surprise you because you did not necessarily plan to participate in that action or activity. It just happened.

You will likely astound yourself almost daily in the next few days. “When or where did I become interested in that?”

You must then decide if you wish to follow through with that interest or if it is a fleeting thought you have moved beyond or explored in your sleep state.

Decisions have become a yes or no paradigm with no correct answers other than what you feel when you explore that piece.

Should you explore further even if you do not feel a spark of interest when you do? That is your choice – choices that are expanding rapidly throughout this week and next. Instead of deciding if you wish to purchase a green or blue jacket, you will be offered all the colors as choices or actions.

You will clarify who you wish to become, not in terms of shoulds or have-tos, but of self-interest. This is no longer a time of trying to make something or someone work with all the decision shades it once contained – but instead more of a yes/no process many times daily. For you will be offered anything and everything imaginable. There will not be time to refine those decisions. Instead, it will become “Yes, I’m interested” or “No, I’m not.” And if your decision is no, it will be a definite no without the need for further exploration.

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In the past, you pondered for days, weeks, or even years. “Am I interested in this relationship?” “Should I try to shift this relationship more to my liking or accept it as it is?” “Should I buy this?” And on and on, trying to fit within parameters that were not right for you. You will now decide in minutes or hours instead of days, weeks, or years.

There is too much opening in your world to waste time exploring something mildly interesting.

The difference between now and your past was that you needed to run your decisions through socially accepted behavior patterns. A process that most often included discussing the decision with friends or relatives to ascertain if you were ‘right’ to negate that person or action or if you should accept the so-so feelings to continue something of little interest to you.

Many relationships will evolve or end. Not because either person is bad or wrong, but because you do not have time to ponder your interests. Doing so with each decision would become overwhelming.

“Maybe” is no longer an option. Nor is “Give it some time.”

You are now in your full flitting state with little need to wait and see or to play through a “Maybe if I do this or that, it will become right for me.”

Your days will rush by with little need to slow yourself or your actions as you flit through decision after decision. Some of you will be very tired, even emotionally distraught, as you shift your decisions process from shoulds to interests. Others will be exhilarated as you toss aside your social restrictions.

However you process this part of your journey, you will be on your path with a distinct knowing who you are and why you selected that path. And even though those decisions might be refined or changed later, for now, you are flitting rapidly from one action to another without worrying about allowing enough decision time, what others might think, or who you should be or were. This rapid personal decision time will change your life.

Allow yourself to be surprised but also be thankful that you are finally allowing yourself to evolve as you wish and need instead of who you think you should be.  

 

So be it. 

 

Brenda Hoffman

http://www.lifetapestrycreations.com/

 

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