Service to others

Service to others

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on March 8, 2025

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

There are famous Ra channelings, called the Law of One or the Ra material.

In it, a distinction is made between the "service to self" path and the "service to others" path.

The service to self path basically means being evil, and the service to self path basically means being good. However, it is pointed out that both paths are valid from a high enough perspective. After all, all roads lead back to Source, and ultimately we're reincarnating immortal souls. So the true us isn't being harmed if some service-to-self person harms our lower self.

Now, higher perspectives should not invalidate lower perspectives. So while on one hand it is good to acknowledge that the service to self path is valid, it is also perfectly understandable to not like people who are doing horrendous harm, and want to see them stopped. Both perspectives have merit.

I think all of this makes sense, except that I don't like the term "service to others." And that is the new information I wish to contribute today.

First, "service to others" makes it sound like sacrificing yourself for the benefit of others is the right thing to do. It's really not: putting yourself below others, or assigning less value to yourself than you assign to others, isn't unity consciousness. The proper thing to do is to actually serve yourself a bit (in a non-destructive way) and to serve others a bit. Because after all, you can't give from an empty cup.

And second, it's sort of separation consciousness to label people who aren't you as "others." From a unity consciousness perspective, those so-called others are in fact a part of you. They're not really other.

So personally I would name the good path as the "service to all" path, because then the self is included. And the evil path is still the "service to self" path.

Or alternatively, one could call the good path the "unity" path and call the evil path the "separation" path. And walking those paths reinforce either unity consciousness or separation consciousness.

This reflects that good people often see others as part of themselves to a degree, and so are motivated to help them in the same way that you are motivated to help your own arm if it is wounded. So a person on the "unity" path might help others just because those others are part of them. And that is perfectly fine.

Meanwhile evil people often see themselves as completely separate from others, which means that harming others isn't a big deal, and furthermore you can't rely on others which means that you are the only one who can make sure that you are okay. Hence stepping over other people to get what you want is the proper thing to do.

Another benefit is that this correctly indicates that the separation path is actually harder and more painful in the medium term than the unity path is.

So in summary: I personally prefer talking about either "service to all" versus "service to self", or talking about the "unity" path versus the "separation" path.

What do you think? Or do you have suggestions for other names? Feel free to leave comments. I would love to read your thoughts.

With all my love,

Your star sister,

Tunia

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Pain or illness can mean you are healing

Pain or illness can mean you are healing

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on January 14, 2025

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

First of all, I am very sorry that Earth continues to be so harsh and lonely. I expect and hope that things will improve this year, including on the physical and practical levels. My heart goes out to you.

This week I would like to share something that some of you will already know, but for those people hopefully it will be a useful reminder.

This week I would like to share that discomfort or pain or illness can mean that you are healing. Discomfort or pain or illness, even if it arises seemingly out of nowhere, doesn’t necessarily mean that there is anything wrong with you.

Often people assume that if they don’t feel discomfort or pain, then things are fine; and if they feel discomfort or pain, things are not fine.

And sometimes that genuinely is the case.

However, what can also be the case is that when things start deteriorating in your body, or when you experience a severe emotional blow, then you don’t feel anything in the moment. The reason you don’t feel anything is that your body quietly deteriorates, or you become more numb without noticing, or your pain gets split off into an unconscious part of yourself. But you don’t feel pain in the moment.

But then later when you start healing, whether physically or emotionally, that’s when you feel the pain or experience an illness. That doesn’t mean that you got wounded or fell ill at that moment. It merely means that that is the moment when things are okay enough in your body that you start to process it.

An example is a teacher who accumulates stress and fatigue all year. Yet during the year, while the stress is accumulating, this teacher will tell you that they are fine. But then when the summer holiday starts, this teacher gets sick, because now their body sees that there is an opportunity for rest. And this summer illness might actually just be a healing and rest and recovery process.

Sometimes if you experience pain or illness out of seemingly nowhere, what might happen is that your body is stable and doing well enough that it feels that it can start to process old pain, and that’s when you experience it. So in that case, pain or illness that seemingly comes up out of nowhere can actually be an unpleasant but real healing process that is going on. Or it might be ascension symptoms.

In general your mind and body and emotions are striving towards health. They are not going to torture you for no reason. So if for example old emotional pain comes up out of nowhere, that isn’t your mind trying to hurt you. It’s likely an attempt to fully release this pain because it was stuck in your subconscious. And all you need to do is just observe it and feel it, perhaps a few times, and then it will pass.

So: some things that get labeled as physical or emotional diseases on Earth are actually healing processes; whereas sometimes actual deterioration and actual emotional wounds aren’t labeled as a problem at all because they don’t cause pain in the moment.

That said, I am not claiming that all pain or illness that arises is always a benign healing process. Sometimes it is, but sometimes it isn’t. Therefore, it is still important to use your common sense and listen to your doctor.

With that, and with all my love, I will leave you for today.

Have a good week.

Your star sister,

Tunia

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Children are smarter than many realize

Children are smarter than many realize

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on April 12, 2025

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

From my perspective, most Earth people underestimate how wise and smart and perceptive children can be. After all, anyone who has had children will notice that sometimes they make very sharp observations that cut to the heart of the matter.

I think Earth children are too often treated condescendingly and like they're dumb. Now sure, it's not good to literally treat a child like you would treat an adult. Children obviously do have less developed brains than adults do.

Still, consider for example baby talk (saying "gooh gooh gah gah"). Baby talk doesn't actually help the baby learn your language. It's much better to just talk to them normally, as you would talk to an adult. They will learn much more from that than from baby talk.

Furthermore, it's better for babies psychologically if you talk to them like they're sort of an equal, rather than talking to them like they're a moron. Which is more or less what someone is doing when they engage in baby talk.

While children are different, some children are also able to engage with far more complex material than you might realize is possible. The recommended and normal types of material and books that you let children interact with at a given age is almost like a lowest common denominator. Some children can engage with substantially more complex material than that, at least in some specific fields. So don't just give them the so-called age-appropriate stuff, but also let them briefly try out or study various more complex things, and see if they can pick it up or if they enjoy it.

This is especially true for the often high-vibration and talented children that are coming in now.

Of course, your education system needs drastic reform.

One point here is that it can be profoundly damaging to a child to force him or her to sit still in a classroom and only give them work that is too easy for them.

Another point is that children should be much more free to explore various things and then to spend a substantial amount of time on things that they're actually interested in, rather than forcing them to learn a standard school curriculum.

Furthermore, children are often very well in tune with their bodies, in tune with subtle energies and in tune with non-physical beings. They're typically much better at this than their parents are -- but then tragically, school and parents typically train them to only focus on physical matter, and to live by the clock.

How amazing would it be if children were given a brief lesson on energy healing during their childhoods? Many children can pick that up more quickly than adults can.

So, my hope is that on New Earth: children are respected more, are given more freedom than they currently have and are given more opportunities to learn and explore things, including advanced and spiritual topics.

And one important step towards that is for adults to realize that children can actually be quite smart, wise and spiritually capable. And that it's good to briefly let them look at material that an average Earth adult might consider to be too complex at that age. Some of the material might indeed be too complex, but who knows, maybe the child is talented in a specific field and they can delve into relatively advanced material quite quickly.

With all my love and respect,

Your star sister,

Tunia

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Sharing Circle Late October 2023

Sharing Circle Late October 2023

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on September 11, 2023

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you all so very much. I know that life on Earth is really tough and harsh, and you have all my love and respect.

I would like to open another sharing circle today.

You can write about or share anything you want in the comment section.

I’m also curious about how people are doing right now. This is also something you are invited to share about, if you wish.

Please be emotionally safe to each other in the comment section. That means that you can reply to each other, but for example please don’t give unsolicited advice. If people want advice, they can ask for it.

Also keep in mind that if your post is very long, it may take a while for it to show up.

With that said: the circle is open, and you are invited to share.

Tunia

A. S.

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You're doing great already

You're doing great already

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on April 17, 2025

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

I have been feeling into the energies on Earth, and my heart goes out to you -- life on Earth must be so incredibly tough and lonely and painful for many people.

At the same time, I am incredibly proud of you that you are doing so well.

Even if you don't think you are doing well -- the vast majority of souls in your shoes would be doing worse than you are. So why would you not be doing well?

You've been trained into a completely artificial belief, that if you don't achieve this and that, and that if you don't have a body that looks a certain way, and that if you don't have a certain amount of things, that you are not doing good enough.

This is entirely artificial. There is no law of physics that says that if you don't have this or that, if you don't do this or that, if you don't look like such and such, that you are not doing well enough.

The vast majority of souls in your shoes would be doing worse than you are -- only strong and wise and experienced and old souls have recently been allowed to incarnate on Earth, and even within that select group, you belong to a small group within that who managed to wake up, whether partially or fully.

So if you're doing better than the vast majority of souls would do in your shoes -- doesn't that suggest that you are in fact doing well?

Imagine if you had an exceptionally intelligent dog. And you taught it that if it couldn't do complex calculations, and if it didn't have a body that looked a certain way, that it wasn't doing well enough.

Well, wouldn't that be cruel to the dog?

And wouldn't that standard that you imposed on the dog be entirely artificial? After all, there's no law of physics that says that dogs have to meet this standard to be good enough.

And there's also no law of physics that says that humans have to meet a certain standard to be good enough.

You are doing good enough. The idea that you're not doing good enough is just some artificial idea that society trained you into. But there's no substance or logic behind it. You just believe it because you were trained to think in that way as a child, and children are sponges, but that doesn't make it true.

Ultimately you can only do your best, and that is enough -- and doing your best also means respecting the amount of energy and emotional resources you have. If you're out of energy, then doing your best means resting, possibly even for a substantial period of time. That is not failure.

It wouldn't be logical to think that only if you did more than you're capable of doing, that you would be doing good enough. That sentence doesn't even make logical sense.

You are good enough. Artificial standards are artificial. All you've ever needed to do is just your best, and that is enough -- and if that means you don't have certain things, or don't do certain things, or don't have a body that looks a certain way, then so be it.

You can't do more than your best, by definition. It doesn't even make logical sense to expect more from someone than their best.

If someone else expects more from you than your best, then that's their illusion. It doesn't have to be yours.

With all my love,

Your star sister,

Tunia

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Double Standards of Nuance

Double Standards of Nuance

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on February 23, 2024

 

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

I have a short message for you today.

Most people on Earth are afraid, and also have unresolved old pain. Therefore, most people on Earth aren’t using arguments and debate as a way to find truth. Rather, they use it as a tool to convince others that they’re right, so that they can feel a bit less afraid.

Of course, when everyone does this — and on Earth, nearly everyone does this — then everyone loses.

On Earth, there’s a concept called nuance trolling. It is: intentionally muddying the waters by claiming that a situation that is pretty clear, is actually very complicated.

So for example, nuance trolling would be arguing that you can’t say that Israel is committing a genocide (which in my opinion it is doing), because the situation is so very complicated and so very nuanced. Nuance trolling might be a claim that you can’t say that Israel is committing an, in my opinion, genocide unless that argument also addresses this and this and this and this point.

While the people of Earth have created the concept of nuance trolling, personally I would frame it as people having double standards of nuance. So that would be:

Israel defenders don’t accept any nuance when it comes to the 7th of October attacks. If you bring in the nuance and context that Palestinians grew up in an (in my opinion) open-air prison, then how dare you, you are an anti-semite. So nuance, or claims that it’s complicated, aren’t allowed at all when it comes to October 7th. And to be clear, I do not condone the October 7th attacks.

At the same time, when it comes to the morality of Israel’s response, then suddenly we need endless amounts of nuance, and the situation is so very complicated.

So basically, double standards of nuance are: if we do something bad, then the situation is complex and nuanced. But if you do something bad, then you’re just evil.

I’m discussing Israel here, but obviously there are also other examples. If in America you correctly say that Russia’s special military operation in Ukraine is more morally complex than “Russia bad”, then you’re a Putin apologist or a Russian agent. But if you say that America committed genocide on native Americans, now suddenly the situation is very complex and nuanced. It’s the same double standards of nuance: if we do something bad, then the situation is complex and nuanced. But if you do something bad, then you’re just evil.

To be clear, while I think America did commit genocide on native Americans, I don’t think that present-day Americans need to feel shame for that, because it wasn’t them who did it, it was their ancestors. I believe in acknowledging reality, but not in shaming people just because other people in their group or in their family tree did something bad in the past. Also, I think the USA is still a great country.

These double standards of nuance probably just come from the fact that people genuinely perceive the situation as complex when they do something evil, and as clear-cut if someone they dislike does something evil. It’s the old observation that people judge themselves by their intentions — us Israelis must remain safe, at any cost — and others by their actions. After all, when you cut someone off in traffic, then you’re in a hurry and you had a bad day, but when someone cuts you off it’s inexcusable. If you’re in a bad relationship then it’s complex, but if someone else is in a bad relationship then it’s obvious what to do.

Still, I do think it’s useful to be aware of these double standards of nuance, so that if someone says that you can’t make a claim unless you address these points, then consider if they are applying the same nuance-standards to their own claims that their enemies are evil. Also, if you have in your head that a certain group of people is just plain evil and that’s that, consider if you are maybe applying different standards of nuance to them than you are applying to yourself and to groups that you do like.

I hope this was helpful. Have a good week.

I love you so very much,

Your star sister,

Tunia

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Feel Your Pain

Feel Your Pain

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on February 15, 2025

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

This channeler is in a long-distance relationship with a Pleiadian woman. They haven’t physically met yet, but they talk a lot and they’re both skilled enough at energy work that their energy bodies can interact with each other just fine. Almost every night this channeler goes to sleep cuddled up with the energy body of that Pleiadian woman.

The reason I’m sharing this is to illustrate that this particular Pleiadian woman is looking through this channeler’s eyes a lot, and is looking through his memories a lot (all with permission). And she’s not just surface-level looking at the facts, but she’s really feeling into everything, because she wants to understand the channeler and life on Earth as best as she can.

And this particular Pleiadian woman also cries about once every week or once every two weeks as she sees the darkness and loneliness on Earth, and as she feels into the pain that this channeler has experienced in the past.

And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with this Pleiadian woman. While not all Pleiadians cry when looking at life on Earth, her crying every now and then is still a completely natural and frankly appropriate reaction.

This Pleiadian woman isn’t being traumatized. There’s a spiritual principle that says “be as a child” and indeed she somewhat regularly has a short period of crying when looking at Earth, and then completely gets that out of her system and she suffers from no ill long-term effects. You know, as a child does. And this isn’t bad at all — what children do is often healthy and natural. Meanwhile the shape that Earth adults have been molded into often isn’t psychologically healthy.

Her crying initially made this channeler highly uncomfortable, but he’s since learned that there’s nothing wrong with crying, and that there’s nothing wrong with her, and that her crying doesn’t mean that he failed or did something wrong or that he needs to go fix some problem. In fact, all is as it should be.

As she said: “even if I’m crying, I’m fine. Just because I’m experiencing the emotion of sadness in the moment, doesn’t mean I’m not fine.”

After all, you don’t ask “what’s wrong” if someone went to the bathroom in an ordinary way, right? It’s understood that going to the toilet is just a thing that keeps you healthy. There’s nothing wrong with going to the toilet, in fact not doing so is weird and unhealthy. Similarly, there’s no need to ask “what’s wrong” if someone is crying. There’s nothing wrong with them, they’re just relieving themselves by crying and keeping themselves healthy in the process.

In fact, sometimes she cries about something, and that causes him as well to deeply feel his pain. And he heals and opens up a bit more because of that.

So, if even someone who isn’t living on Earth but is merely observing life on Earth feels the urge to cry pretty frequently about the situation that’s going on — well, then I imagine that most people on Earth are in deep pain themselves. Which, again, is entirely understandable given the state of Earth.

Obviously people and people’s circumstances are different. Yet I believe that most people on Earth simply aren’t feeling their pain and are suppressing it, at least some of the time. Including most spiritual people.

And I think this leads to people being blocked emotionally or spiritually, it leads to people feeling despair, it contributes to physical and mental unwellness, it leads to people engaging in addictions and distractions and it leads to people harshly judging others and demanding that the external world be fixed so that they can finally feel happy.

So… if you do feel despair. If you do feel the urge to engage in addictions or eat unhealthy foods or distract yourself. If you do feel the urge to not just disagree but in fact to harshly judge other people and point the finger outward and demand that other people fix the world for you… then quite possibly there’s pain in you that you are not feeling.

Every time you feel the urge to point the finger outwards, look inwards instead.

Every time you feel so-called negative emotions, look inwards. Fully observe what’s going on inside you, because those negative emotions will pass quite quickly once they have been fully observed and accepted and acknowledged.

If you feel your pain, it doesn’t turn into suffering.

And I get it. There’s so much darkness and pain on your world that subconsciously it might feel easier to just suppress it at least part of the time and get on with your life.

Yet, suppressing your pain is profoundly unhealthy in the long term.

So, feel your pain. You don’t need any special technique for that. Just observe what arises in the moment, and if it’s pain that arises, then allow it in and accept it and feel it. And if you feel the urge to cry or to go move your body or something, do that if you’re in a situation where that’s possible.

And if something in you arises that may be a secondary desire or a secondary urge, try to feel what’s below that. So for example, a desire for more luxury objects can mask a desire to be seen and loved and appreciated.

And while it’s not strictly necessary, get emotional support if you can. This can look like having a dog or a cat. It can look like journalling. Or it can look like having one or a few people with whom you share your emotions, including the so-called negative ones.

Asking for a hug can help. Recently this channeler asked for an energetic hug from his Pleiadian girlfriend, and she said “thank you for taking care of yourself. You asking for a hug when you were upset like that was the healthiest thing you could do.” So asking for a hug isn’t weak; it’s healthy.

And try to make your contact with other people as emotionally safe as possible. This doesn’t mean that you never disagree with each other. But it does mean that, for example, if someone is in pain or cries or shares insecurity, that you simply listen and love them, without immediately trying to fix them or fix their problems or suggest solutions.

It means that if someone is venting, that you don’t lecture them that they’re being irrational; they probably know, they’re just working through their emotions. It is because they’re venting now that they’re able to be more rational later on.

Being emotionally safe means only very rarely giving unsolicited advice, and only after you fully understand them (which requires much more listening to them than most people do). Probably you don’t want to get unsolicited advice yourself from someone who doesn’t fully understand you; well most people feel the same way.

People have this idea in their mind that most people are fine, and the people who aren’t fine are the ones who are crying or are experiencing emotional pain.

But in fact, almost no one on Earth is completely fine. Most people on Earth suppress their pain, and the people who do cry or talk about their pain are the people who are most effectively taking care of themselves.

After all, a person who genuinely is completely fine and isn’t in any pain whatsoever and who doesn’t have any old unresolved pain is a person who radiates love and who has significant psychic abilities unlocked. Sure, there are a couple of people like that on Earth, such as accomplished spiritual masters, but it’s a small minority. The average spiritual person isn’t like that yet.

Most people aren’t fine, and they’re just unhealthily suppressing their pain. The people who are crying or working through their pain are at least engaging with it in a healthy way and are taking good care of themselves.

That said, I do acknowledge that some people have serious practical problems, such as financial problems, and for them making sure they can pay rent is a higher priority than feeling their pain. That is true, and I very much empathize.

You’re in my thoughts every day. You will be free. And I love you deeply and endlessly.

Your star sister,

Tunia

For Era of Light

 

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Be conscious about self-labels

 Be conscious about self-labels

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on December 28, 2024

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

I hope you had a great Christmas and happy holidays.

And I hope that you will have a very good new year. I expect that in 2025 things will finally turn around for the better, including on the physical and practical levels. New Earth may not yet fully unfold in 2025, but things will likely significantly improve during 2025.

For today, I want to share something that I hope may be able to help you let go of blocks and barriers, so you can embody love to a deeper degree.

In past messages, we have noted that people often don’t see reality. Instead they see labels. So for example, a person may see someone who is on the other political side not as another person, but instead they may see them as A Democrat or as A Republican.

In that way, they no longer see an individual. Instead, they see someone who is lazy, or someone who is dumb, or someone who is racist, even though they don’t actually know the other person. After all, the other person is a Democrat or Republican, and Democrats or Republicans are lazy, or dumb, or racist.

Now, I don’t want to say that you should never label anyone. After all, your mind is a labeling machine, and if I tell you that you should never label anyone and you accept that statement, then what will likely happen is that you will continue labeling people subconsciously, while telling yourself that you’re objective and that you never label people. And then your shadow and your amount of unconsciousness will grow.

So instead, I will say that you should be conscious about labeling people. Observe yourself, and if you find yourself labeling people and reacting to those labels, then just observe that you’re doing so. And try to be as fair as possible in your words and actions.

And today, I will also note that you should also be conscious about your self-labels. Namely, about the labels that you have put on yourself. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t apply self-labels, but I am saying that you should be conscious about self-labels.

To an extent self-labels are useful. If you earn a living as a programmer, then it’s not that bad to label yourself as a programmer. Or, preferably, to label yourself as a person who makes a living via programming. You are more than your job, after all.

If you care very much about spirituality, then it may be fine to label yourself as a person interested in spirituality.

That said, I would be slightly careful with labeling yourself as a spiritual person, because that can make it sound like everything you do is automatically the spiritually optimal thing to do, because you are a spiritual person.

That is the same pattern that you see when people label themselves as democratic, and then they want to ban for example a political party or political candidate, and they see nothing wrong with that because they have labeled themselves as democratic. So they’re protecting Democracy by banning a political party or politician, and in their mind that makes sense because they have self-labeled as a democratic person, or as a defender of democracy.

Or a person might label themselves as a scientific person, and they might want to ban an expert or a scientist from speaking, and they see nothing wrong with that because they have labeled themselves as a scientist. So they’re defending science by violating the scientific method.

So in that way, positive self-labels can be a bit dangerous, because they can be used to justify behavior that otherwise clearly seems bad.

On the other hand, negative self-labels can make you depressed or can really hold you back from trying things and taking risks and pursuing what you want.

A quality of many Americans, for example, is that they often don’t have “I can’t” as a self-label.

You can really hold yourself back if you label yourself as some kind of victim. Even if you genuinely are a victim in some way, it’s useful to be able to see multiple perspectives. Perhaps one perspective is that you are a victim. And perhaps another perspective is that you still have some genuine qualities or skills. You may still be able to build at least an okay life for yourself. Even if you were dealt a bad hand, that doesn’t automatically mean that your life is destined to be miserable.

Plus, perhaps you genuinely are a victim in one way, but perhaps you also have some amazing talent. Or perhaps you have great parents. Or perhaps you were born with a high IQ. Or perhaps you have good friends. Not everyone has that.

And sometimes people even think they’re being held back by something that they aren’t in fact being held back by. For example, there are women who think their life is harder overall because they’re a woman. And there are men who think their life is harder overall because they’re a man. So, probably at least some people are excessively focusing on the negatives of their situation and are insufficiently looking at the positives.

The grass isn’t actually greener on the other side. It only seems that way if you don’t appreciate your own grass.

Also, different people may go through the same thing and stick wildly different labels on themselves as a result. This means that the labels that you have stuck on yourself may not be the objectively correct ones, and in fact your self-labels might be quite subjective.

For example, imagine that five people have the exact same, very painful childhood. One sees themselves as a victim. One sees themselves as irreparably broken. One sees themselves as a survivor, as a strong person. One sees themselves as having gained important perspective and lessons from their suffering. And one sees themselves as a wounded healer, as someone who can help others because of the suffering they themselves endured.

One experience, five different labels that people can put on themselves. Which means that certain self-labels that people have may be a lot more subjective than they realize.

The words “I am” are powerful, so be conscious about how you use those words.

So, what labels have you stuck on yourself?

I invite you to take a minute to reflect on that.

What kind of person are you?

Again, start out by just observing. Observe first, don’t immediately judge or tear down your labels.

Next up, how do you view your time here on Earth? Is Earth a prison? Is being there pretty okay, despite all the painful and hard things? Is being on Earth just genuinely fun and rewarding? Or do you not enjoy it but you are willing to be of service? Or do you not enjoy it at present but are convinced that if you keep working at it, one day your life will become enjoyable?

If you want to share in the comment section, perhaps anonymously, please feel free to do so. I love hearing what people think.

Regardless of how you label yourself, I think you are amazing, and I love you so very much. You are fully worthy of being embraced as you are right now. And I wish you an amazing Christmas, and indeed a great 2025.

I love you so very much.

Your star sister,

Tunia

For Era of Light

 

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Sharing Circle

Sharing Circle

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on September 11, 2023

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you very much.

You are invited to share in the comment section.

You can share anything you want.

If you’re not sure what to share, here are some possible topics to get the creative juices flowing:

How are you doing?

Which things are going well, what things are going poorly?

What things are you working on, whether inwardly or externally?

Are you happy?

Do you know people in real life who you can talk to about spiritual and possibly truther topics?

What gives you positive energy?

What would you like to receive?

What things cause you pain or fear?

Or you can share anything else you want.

Of course you’re free to post anonymously.

You are welcome to reply to each other, but please be emotionally safe to each other. Among other things, this means: please don’t give advice unless asked.

With that, the sharing circle is open. Feel free to share whatever you want in the comment section.

Your star sister,

Tunia 

A. S.

These channelings are exclusively submitted to EraofLight.com by the channeler. If you wish to share them elsewhere, please include a link back to this original post.