Love Comes Not From Us, But Through Us
by Steve Beckow
Posted on March 5, 2024
Ummm, well, sort of. Uhhh, partly….
After my heart opening in 2015, (1) I went through a time of saying that you can’t get love from another person. It was clear to me: Love came up from our hearts and then out from us.
Never mind the contradiction of me sending it out to someone…. Small matter…. You can’t get love from another.
Then Matthew came along and said, yes, you can. Here’s an example from Matthew:
“Please ask Matthew how we can send love-light.” With joy we tell you this is as easy as your desire to do so! If you wish to “formalize” this in a prayer or meditation or visualization, that is fine, of course, but your feelings and intention are enough. And, no “address” is needed. Simply your thought of the person, group or Earth herself directs your love-light energy where you want it to go. (2)
Now I have a dilemma.
“I” do not give you love that is somehow my own. I don’t have it to give of myself. It comes from the universal Source, that all of us have, through the pipeline of the heart. I only experience that love as it passes through me when I draw it up on my inbreath.
But, then, why send love out on the outbreath if someone is not receiving it? Oh, I’m so confused!
However, in researching another topic, I came across a passage from Marilyn Raffaele’s Arcturians which gave me clarity. I wish I’d written this passage:
“It is humanly natural to expect love or gratitude to come from certain people and when it doesn’t it is easy to blame them or even yourself. However those from whom you may expect it do not in and of themselves have it to give for love and gratitude are Divine qualities that flow through individuals, but never from them.
“The love or gratitude you seek may never come from those you may expect or want it from, but if you acknowledge and seek it from within [your own heart]– (I can never be separate from the Love I am, I am forever complete and whole because I AM) it will flow to you in ways and from places you least expect.” (3)
That answered the original point I was making: That you can’t get love from another person. It’s futile to attempt to do so. We get it from our own heart. However you can get love through another person. I should have seen that! But I didn’t.
It says that I’m simply a vessel not a creator of that love.
Once the love leaves me, when I send it out, the mode of delivery remains unknown to me.
However, I now accept that others can receive the love I send out. That was where I was holding out. All is clear in hindsight.
Thank you to the Arcturians, for clarifying the situation. You’ve furnished us with so many really useful distinctions over the years (as has Matthew)!!!
Footnotes
(1) See “Submerged in Love,”
(2) Matthew’s Message, April 3, 2023, at https://www.matthewbooks.com.
(3) The Arcturian Group via Marilyn Raffaele, June 19, 2022, at https://goldenageofgaia.com/2022/06/19/the-arcturian-group-via-marilyn-raffaele-june-19-2022/.
As usual, when I find one example of something, I find others:
Arcturian Group: In and of themselves, human beings have no love, forgiveness, patience, generosity, etc. to give. These are God qualities only able to express through consciousnesses that are open to and in alignment with them.
Never look to a person for love, forgiveness, patience etc. regardless of how a situation “should be” because a human being does not have it to give unless they are open to it flowing through them. Look only to God for God qualities and you will find them flowing to you from where you least expect.
Accept and trust that everything you seek is already fully present in and as you. (The Arcturian Group via Marilyn Raffaele, Nov. 19, 2023 at https://goldenageofgaia.com/2023/11/19/the-arcturian-group-via-marilyn-raffaele-nov-19-2023/.)
(4) A beggar had been sitting by the side of a road for over thirty years. One day a stranger walked by. “Spare some change?” mumbled the beggar, mechanically holding out his old baseball cap.
“I have nothing to give you,” said the stranger. Then he asked: “What’s that you are sitting on?”
“Nothing,” replied the beggar. “Just an old box. I have been sitting on it for as long as I can remember.”
“Ever looked inside?” asked the stranger.
“No,” said the beggar. “What’s the point? There’s nothing in there.”
“Have a look inside,” insisted the stranger.
The beggar managed to pry open the lid. With astonishment, disbelief, and elation, he saw that the box was filled with gold. (Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now. Downloaded from http://www.inner-growth.info/power_of_now_tolle/eckhart_tolle_chapter1.htm.)
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