Showing posts with label reconciliation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reconciliation. Show all posts

Thursday, April 11, 2024

A Planet in Recovery

A Planet in Recovery

By Steve Beckow

Posted on April 11, 2024



After the emergency broadcasts, I suspect that triaging will be the order of the day.

Since, I believe, the Reval will have happened by then, the ninety days under an NDA will fly by, given how many shattered lives there will be whose healing to support.

A second tsunami of love will be needed.

I anticipate a med-bed healing by then and an emergence from this memory fog.   I’ll need it for strength because I’ve been through before what many people will be going through then. I know how it feels.

I remember finding out in 2000 that my guru, a purnavatar or full and complete incarnation of God, whom I’d served for twenty-five years and about whose teachings I’d written or edited twelve books, was a pedophile. (1) Children who tried to murder him were themselves killed by the police. All of it was hushed up.

I talked to the fathers of boys who’d been molested. Indisputable evidence was before me. Previously I’d denied it as people today deny that the vaccine is harmful. Carping critics!

So I’ve played both roles – the one who denies and the one who realizes.

When I saw the truth, my world collapsed, just as the world of many people on a collision course with reality today may collapse.

And then we’ll be in triage. And only after that will we be in recovery. Only when we’re in recovery would it be safe, I think, to hold global truth and reconciliation hearings without becoming a mob.

All of this will be greatly assisted by the rising lovelight energies and the Ring of Fire. (2) That’s a wild card. Will it heal people completely? Will med beds be used to heal traumatic memories? We don’t know yet.

I predict that the love we’ll then experience will mend all broken hearts, reassure all people of the productive direction to follow, and reassure them that … there is a God.

I’ve experienced that love. It vanquishes all enemies. It dispels animosity itself.  It cleanses the mind of all thoughts even remotely related.

After the planetary heart opening, it’ll be clear to us where the real treasure lies and our access to it will have been demonstrated. Now the real work can begin.

Footnotes

(1)  None of them appear in my bibliography. Most were written under a pseudonym.  One, a dictionary of his teachings, was used at his university – and still may be.

Archangel Michael said the avatar left him after his second molestation of a young boy.

(2) On the rising energies, see:

Steve Beckow

 
 

Wednesday, April 10, 2024

Reconciliation an Important Thing, But Not THE Important Thing

Reconciliation an Important Thing, But Not THE Important Thing

By Steve Beckow

Posted on April 10, 2024


One of the mistakes the friends and family of folks caught in a cycle of conflict often make is to mistake reconciliation – getting back together (step 8) – as a resolution of the conflict.

We reconcile and they all applaud, as if reconciliation is THE most important thing.

No, if nothing ever changes, then exiting the cycle of conflict is THE most important thing and reconciliation – if nothing ever changes – will likely not prove to be the enduring answer.

The fact that “nothing ever changes” seems to be one of the chief features of the cycle.

The impact of getting back together again and discovering, when the disagreements begin again, that nothing has changed can be demoralizing.

And it can lead to an increase in anger because we feel that we’re not being heard, acknowledged, or seen to; we’re being ignored.

“What’s the use?” arises.  We move further and further into disappointment and resentment – which cuts us off from any real love we may feel. Thus, at exactly a time when love is needed, our anger cuts us off from the source of it in our own heart.

I know what real love is. I get it from my heart and, to a lesser degree, from others. And I know that, when we lower our vibration by resenting, we can’t reach that love any longer.

So a second matter in setting out to exit the cycle of conflict is not to falsely evaluate the reconciliation. It’s a second chance at joining together and working out our relationship patterns so that conflict is minimized while love is maximized. But it isn’t the final victory unto itself.

(To be continued.)


Steve Beckow

 
 

Thursday, September 7, 2023

True Reconciliation Means Working Together

True Reconciliation Means Working Together

By Steve Beckow

Posted on September 7, 2023


 

Adhere to Agreed-Upon Rules and Boundaries

These will vary from relationship to relationship. But no physical violence or shouting should be one of them.

True Reconciliation

As Nelson Mandella says, “reconciliation means working together to correct the legacy of past injustices.”

To exit the cycle peacefully and productively takes mutual commitment and work of the kind Nelson probably had in mind.

I emphasize “working together.”

With work and cooperation, I believe the cycle of conflict, which is the experience of countless couples with its “legacy of past injustices,” can be ended.

If we won’t do the work necessary to emerge from our own domestic conflict, how will we emerge from our global conflict?

Wishlist

Gosh, I just felt overwhelmed at the thought of rebirthing the Growth Movement by reviewing some of their major insights and conclusions.

No, that has to wait till after the Reval and I’ll hire a staff of researchers to do it.

But just as a wish list, in what we’ve been discussing around relationship conflict, I’d like to see us:

(A) Tell the truth, harmlessly but accurately, and drop the games, acts, rackets, etc.

(B) Stay away from right/wrong, good/bad.

(C) Share how we feel, how we’re impacted, and what we want.

(D) Take personal responsibility for our thoughts, feelings, and actions, as far as that applies.

(E) Be willing to listen to feedback, try it on, test it out, and see if it fits. If it fits, own it and

(F) Adhere to agreed-upon groundrules and boundaries.

Tomorrow we conclude by looking at the process of leaving the cycle of conflict when you’re single.

Steve Beckow