WE CAN'T TELL WHAT THE OUTCOME WILL BE BUT WILL INFLUENCE TO PREVENT IT ESCALATING

WE CAN'T TELL WHAT THE OUTCOME WILL BE BUT WILL INFLUENCE TO PREVENT IT ESCALATING

Mike Quinsey’s Higher Self

Posted on May 24, 2024

  

 

 

Matters of concern are coming to a head and your Leaders are well aware that world peace is at stake. Countries are having to decide which side to support to ensure they have some form of protection. It is an ugly scene that will have a direct effect on so many of them who are already feeling the problems created by world shortages of essential produce.

We cannot tell what the outcome will be but will use our influence to prevent it escalating into something more serious. What is happening is typical of the end-times when that which was hidden is revealed. Most worrying is the deliberate intent to change countries borders for gain, and at the expense of the people who will be directly affected. However, out of all negative actions we can see opportunities for advancement in many ways as the old system is shown up for its weaknesses.

Regardless of what happens there are usually positive aspects that will continue to help Humanity to evolve as will be seen in the near future. We would much prefer a peaceful period of change but that seems almost impossible given that many countries are being led by tyrants.

Unfortunately that is the way of the world just now and there is little hope of it changing. It seems that Man is incapable of realising that Humanity is one great family of brothers and sisters. At heart human beings are of a peaceful nature but are being led by those who believe that might is right. Yet your history shows that it is short lived and no answer to the desire to live in peace. The dark Ones would rather have total control over the population who only exist as in an open prison.

However do not worry about such an issue as they will never have the opportunity to do so. Man was given freewill and we assure you that it cannot be taken away from you. You have learned so much from your many lives having been able to follow your own inclinations where your future has been concerned. Life at times has been very testing but it has made you stronger and able to withstand the difficulties placed upon your path. Most souls seek a peaceful life but as part of their experiences they often have to face tremendous challenges.

It tests your ability to rise to the occasion and handle it with care, and consideration of how it may affect other people. Know that absolutely no soul can abuse another one without having to accept the consequences.Often it is by experiencing exactly the same as you have treated another soul. If for one moment you had full memory of your many lives during the last cycle, you would be amazed at the progress you have made, and here you are now prepared for a wonderful change that will leave behind all that has been a negative part of your experience.

You have no further need for it and proved that you raised your vibrations as a result of your experiences, and intent to raise yourself up through your dedication to your life plan. We have been with you all of the way and pleased that you have accepted the task of overcoming the negativity around you.

You have been deliberately misled by it as to your true purpose in life, but efforts to prevent you finding out the truth have failed. Your success has made you strong and able to ignore the negativity around you, and help other souls understand the true purpose of their many lives upon Earth. You will never have to again go through such testing times and a wonderful future beckons.

You will choose what your next experiences will be and they are certain to be very satisfying and uplifting, remember that evolution is an ongoing experience to be enjoyed and often exciting. Naturally you will finally meet us and we look forward to that reunion. The question often arises as to how you could help other people through the difficulties that are presently being experienced.  Convincing people that there is no question of a nuclear war is not easy when living in a world that is at war with itself.

However, those forces that oversee your existence will impose their demands upon any country that is prepared to use them against the people. As previously stated, we have the means of making such weapons totally inoperative. So do not fear the threats being given out by those who use them to carry out military operations.

Understandably people question what the future will bring that will lift them up so that life can continue peacefully, and we say again that changes will take place that will bring about a peace you have not experienced for a long, long time.

It will need many changes and result from entering the higher vibrations and Ascension. We have often referred to them as game changers that will bring the new Earth into being and will have no resemblance to the old one. It will be paradise compared to your present experiences. We do our best to lift you up but realise that at the same time so many are suffering a harsh existence. It is difficult to throw off your pain and suffering in such circumstances, but if it is of some consolation you do not have much longer to go before matters improve.

Already as some of you have noted, many changes are taking place that will clear the way for immediate improvements. As always we are ever present to help you along and fulfil the plans for the great upliftment that is starting to take place. More than ever the many souls that have no idea of what the future holds except it looks very bleak and needs your help to get through the present times.

Even a few words of encouragement can work wonders as things are not as bad as they first appear. Behind the scenes much is being done to overcome the threats of an escalated war so that it does not develop into a World War. There are already so many deaths directly or indirectly attributed to the enforced changes taking place and we try to prevent a worse scenario.

You learn through experience and the Earth at present is a hotbed of happenings that cover all extremes. As an individual you will as far as possible be kept to your life plan as agreed by you prior to being rebirthed upon Earth. So do not fear the worst as by giving energy to such thoughts, you are attracting negativity to yourself.

I leave you with love and blessings, and may the Light brighten your days and path to completion. This message comes through my Higher Self my God Self, and every soul has the same connection to God.

In Love and Light.

Mike Quinsey

 

8 Tricks Emotionally Intelligent People Use to Handle Arguments

8 Things People Who Respect Themselves Never Do

By Sherrie Hurd, A.A.

learning-mind.com

Posted on September 19, 2023

Emotionally intelligent people have an unseen arsenal. Well, they have the ability to logically charm and reason their way through almost any issue.

I think the major trick used by emotionally intelligent people is self-control. They have so much self-control that negative situations don’t automatically shake their deepest feelings. Arguments become an equation they must solve, and not a nerve-wracking situation that leaves scars.

Their objective is winning the argument, but, of course, in the nicest way possible.

Secrets Emotionally Intelligent People Use to Handle Arguments

I admire an emotionally intelligent person, as I can lose my cool easily sometimes. I am hotheaded. There, I said it. So, what sort of tricks are these guys playing, you might ask? Let’s take a look.

1. Use small talk

Most arguments rarely include small talk. Let’s face it, if one of your friends is mad at you, then they probably don’t care about the weather or current events. Hey, but emotionally intelligent people are going to make small talk, anyway.

If you want to be more emotionally intelligent, instead of jumping right into the argument, take some time to say “Hello, it’s nice to see you”. It’s so much harder for someone to be insulting when you say something nice, you know. And yes, confusion may be their first response to this too.

2. Tap into positivity

When you’re in a disagreement with another person, attempt to tap into their positivity. Yeah, they may be angry or frustrated about something, but deep down, there is still a positive seed.

Smile at them. A smile can change the atmosphere and even make the other party reconsider their own standpoints. Smiling can even make people forget why they are angry for a moment. This moment may just give them the time they need to cool down and think straight.

3. Manage thoughts

An emotionally intelligent person can manage their thoughts. While most of us get into arguments and our thoughts become cluttered, this individual already has the end goal of the confrontation in mind. They also consider all possibilities and questions, with choices and answers for those situations.

With all these things cataloged and ready to go, emotionally intelligent people can stop an argument before it even starts. This is a win right from the start.

4. Control reactions

Every action has a reaction, right? Yes, it does. However, reactions do not have to be inflated and dramatized. This is how a person loses an argument really fast. How you react to accusations or insults shows your inner strength.

Emotionally intelligent people have a firm foundation of feelings, primed for proper reaction. They are not easily angered or get their feelings hurt by what someone else says. They understand that their reactions are powerful if used in the correct way — these individuals are stable, logical, and calm.

5. Try on perspectives

An emotionally intelligent person isn’t always right, and they know that. So, another trick they utilize to handle arguments is they strive to see other’s perspectives. They know that everyone is an individual with personal ideas, morals, and beliefs.

With that being said, people with stable emotions believe that a person’s perspectives should be respected and considered. This also means that it’s profitable to have an open mind without judgment.

During an argument, they can listen to the other person and understand where they’re coming from, possibly coming to an agreement.

6. Leverage emotions (both yours and theirs)

One of the tricks of an emotionally intelligent person is the ability to leverage emotions. When you leverage emotions, you essentially try to bring out the feelings that are most useful for each situation in an argument.

If you need the other person to laugh, then you bring that out by telling a joke to lighten the mood. You can call it a step up from just offering a smile. You can also leverage your own emotions when needed, tapping into happiness or contentedness at will.

7. They do not pretend

Emotionally intelligent people are also rather honest people when it comes to revealing how much they know. In an argument, you’ll not see them proclaiming things without proof.

So many of us, when in heated arguments, will say untrue things to other people, and this just enrages them more. Being honest during a confrontation can make the other person pause and consider how they should react to the truth.

Truth is powerful, and emotionally intelligent people are aware of this.

8. Strengths and weaknesses

One other vital thing to remember is that emotionally intelligent people know their strengths and weaknesses, including triggers. They understand when to speak and when to listen, according to their vulnerabilities.

During confrontations, they already know how to respond to threats against certain parts of their character. They are also aware of just how resilient those strong places are.

Let’s Try to Be More Emotionally Intelligent!

I think that if we all try to be more emotionally intelligent, we can stop so many confrontations before they start. It just makes sense.

I remember my father telling me about the fist fights he got into as a young man, and how he lost them most of the time. I asked him why. He said,

“I don’t know, I was just furious at the moment.”

You see, losing your temper with a head full of conflicting emotions and ideas, yeah, that’s not the winning recipe. It’s so much better to be, you guessed it, cool, calm, and collected.

I think we all can learn so much from emotionally intelligent people and how they handle arguments. But I also think, if anyone is a hothead, there’s hope of getting better. I know I’m still working on it.

Sherrie Hurd

About the author:

 

Sherrie Hurd, A.A.

Staff writer at Learning Mind
Sherrie Hurd is a professional writer and artist with over 20 years of experience. As a survivor of childhood trauma and multiple types of abuse, she is an advocate for mental health awareness. Sherrie manages multiple mental illnesses, including anxiety disorder, bipolar disorder, and PTSD. With this background and personal experience, she strives to help others overcome trauma and abuse, cope with mental illness, and heal over time.

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